Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Calling Out Young A-Listers

(Originally published under name "Barbie Jeane" at http://www.thelastgoddess.com/wordpress/2012/07/22/calling-out-young-a-listers/ )


Frank Ocean
Earlier this month, artist and songwriter Frank Ocean took to his blog to announce something extraordinary. He is bisexual, and shared with his fans a love story between himself and another man. 
Of course, there is nothing unusual about two men falling in love, but there is something unique in Ocean’s bravery. The sought after songwriter, who has penned hits for artists like Justin Bieber and Beyonce, is one of the first mainstream figures to come out of the closet in the hip hop and R&B community, a world marked by its homophobia. But equally momentous to coming out as a bisexual man in the very industry responsible for the phrase “no homo” is Ocean’s age. At 24, Frank Ocean is one of two openly gay or bisexual “current” stars under the age of 25.
If such a tiny number seems outrageous and shocking in an industry that has always (jokingly) been said to be run by liberals and homosexuals, it’s because it is.
Asking why young entertainers are staying closeted can only be rhetorical. The obvious bottom line is the lining of Hollywood executives and the recording industry handler’s pocketbooks; it is believed that being gay and making money is yet to be congruent. In truth, these entertainment big wigs are not entirely incorrect. A mediafrenzied America has only recently had it’s first true case study of what is accomplishable by an “out and proud” from the get-go artist via reality television contestant, Adam Lambert. And it’s a little disparaging.
Though Lambert, 30, was closeted (rumoredly) by American Idol’s executives during his time on air, the guyliner-sporting vocalist announced his sexuality in an issue of Rolling Stone magazine prior to the release of his first album. For Your Entertainment, Lambert’s debut effort, landed on the November 2009 Billboard charts behind a string of Christmas albums despite an impressive 250,000 sold in its first week. At this time, however, Lambert was still playing fairly coy when the spotlight was turned on his sexual orientation. In a 2010 segment of 20/20, Adam Lambert told ABC, “I wanted the focus on my ability as a singer and an entertainer– not on my private life.” Though not unusual for a popular figure to request minimal attention be paid to their private lives, in the case of gay celebrities, it is fair to wonder if such a demand is made to avoid the damage traditionally said to be done to one’s career by being publicly out as a gay person.
In fact, as Lambert’s tune on transparency in his personal life changed before the release of his superior sophomore album, Trespassing, so did the public’s support and enthusiasm for the performer. Trespassing did debut at number one on the Billboard charts in May, but saw a significant decrease in album sales from his first record. Pollo Del Mar, a San Francisco-based drag artist and LGBT entertainment journalist (Del Mar recently wrote a rave a review of Trespassing and interviewed the pop star for Gloss Magazine), wonders if Lambert’s new “LGBT-centric focus” is the culprit. “Trespassing sold less than 80,000 copies its first week, approximately one-third of his previous set’s tall, "Del Mar said, "Where is he on the radio? …Does it seem like his [or any gay artist’s] situation is improving?”
Adam Lambert and Sauli Koskinen
Adam Lambert, right, was the first openly gay artist to have a number one album on the Billboards. Pictured with boyfriend Sauli Koskinen.
With the trends considered, it makes sense that coming out is typically reserved for those pop culture figures who have already achieved notable fame and money for themselves (and their managers… record labels… etc.). It is still risky. And yet, there is reason to be optimistic that an artist could have a lucrative career as an openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or trans* person. The irony, however, is that very hope lies within the hands of today’s Generation Z teens– the very group swooning over the under 25 pop icons who just won’t inch out of the closet. Generation Z, or the Net Gen, is composed of those born between 1995 to present. Socially and politically, these kids are wholly more affirming of LGBT people than previous generations. Net Geners are the first to see an increase in peers with same sex parents, and more relevant to the world of entertainment, they are the very generation who make shows like Glee popular (the highest rated episode boasted over 39.5 million viewers). Glee, a show about high school drama students, features openly gay characters and couples. The show’s star Chris Colfer is, alongside Frank Ocean, the other notable out-under-25 celebrity.
In other words, today’s teen is ready for openly gay pop figures. “I think… [we, teenagers]… are fine with listening to gay artists,” a Denver-area high school student, Shaye, said. In fact, the 16 year-old thinks speculation surrounding both closeted and out gay artists will reap rewards in terms of number of fans and lined pocketbooks.
“Being thought of as a gay artist,” Shaye explained, “…it always makes [them] more popular.” More than illustrating Gen Z’s possible receptiveness for LGBT stars, Shaye’s theory also touches upon something not to be forgotten by either young celebrities or their management– the spending power of teenagers.
A 2009 Piper Jaffray report revealed that teens accounted for upwards $125 billion in spending that fiscal year. And while these Net Gen kids did feel the effects of the limping economy, money spent on entertainment (music downloads, DVDs, etc.) stayed almost consistent with the years leading up to the recession. But teenaged fans spend something even greater than money on movies and music, they invest an abundance of loyalty in actors and artists. Unlike adults, teens are willing to spend their expendable incomes on limited edition magazines, books, and tee shirts that feature their favorite stars. These youngsters also spend a considerable amount of time on YouTube, leaving them prime meat for advertisers. Therefore, teen interests influence and set trends in music, movies, and, of course, heartthrobs.
And Generation Z has spoken; today’s teens are into actors like 20 year-old Taylor Lautner and musical acts such as the popular boy band One Direction, among other notably “sexually ambiguous” young stars.
One Direction
One Direction is “hands down” summer 2012’s hottest musical act.
A “sexually ambiguous” image for a young pop star, and sometimes a fresh-faced actor, is usually more apt to appearing desexualized and sanitized than heterosexual or homosexual. Such prepackaging has always been true of the boy band modus operandi, from The Jackson 5 to The Backstreet Boys. “The success of a ‘boy band’ hinges on a nonthreatening sexual identity,” Del Mar explained, “The primary audience for these groups tends to be the ‘tween’ to teen set, with crossover appeal for adults. An overtly sexualized image would probably create parental outcry and, thusly, negatively impact record sales.” However, it could be argued that relaxing standards in regards to sexual expression extends to more than just LGBT individuals. Whether or not sex seems to be less of a taboo within our culture now than it did the last time “sexually neutered” pop stars were being mass marketed, sexuality is ingrained in our media now more than ever before..
Taylor Lautner
Twilight star Taylor Lautner, of “without tee shirt” fame. It is of note that the young adult star has been subject of gay rumors since the glittery vampire film franchise’s debut.
It makes sense, then, that record label and Hollywood executives would lessen their hold on the reigns of Generation Z’s heartthrobs– and to an extent, they have. In 2007, before the premiere of High School Musical 3, star Zac Efron posed semishirtless for Rolling Stone. Taylor Lautner, one of the hunks of the wildly successful Twilight franchise, is less famous for his acting chops than he is his six-pack abs and penchant for going sans shirt. These photos, of course, reveal nothing of these boy’s sexualities other than they might have one. Or, are at least capable in acting in a way that is slightly erotic. In the music industry, this summer’s boy band resurgence has brought with it some surprising twists. UK’s The Wanted might be one of the most “sexually aggressive” groups in all-male pop ensemble history, their biggest hit being the double entendre laced “Glad You Came.” The Wanted’s greatest rival, One Direction, is perhaps the entertainment industry’s most interesting in terms of sexual expression and chastity-as-marketing.
One Direction, comprised of five clean cut men between the ages of 18-20, is the music world’s boy band formula exemplified. The boys appear remarkably young for their ages and sing of puppy love and kisses. Rumors have even gone so far as suggesting the young men were forced by their American record label to sign a contract prior to the band’s summer tour– no girlfriends, and absolutely no sex. By the same token, One Direction, known affectionately by their ‘tweenaged fan base as "1D," are a first of their kind. The boys, Niall Horan, Harry Styles, Liam Payne, Zayn Malik, and Louis Tomlinson, are exceedingly “handsy” with one another; so much so that their “bromance” has become integral to their popularity. One Direction frequently makes headlines for sharing kisses on stage and for making homoerotic comments to each other during interviews (a fan favorite being an interview in which Tomlinson says he “couldn’t handle” Malik if they were to engage in any after dark activities). Quite frankly, the boys seem gay rather than “sexually ambiguous."
And in truth, so do more and more of their entertainer peers.
Though, as coming out at the height of success remains an astonishing act of salient courage (and defiance), it would be notable and noble if any of these acts were to actually admit to being anything other than heterosexual.
In the July 2012 email in which he revealed himself to be gay, news anchor and talk show host Anderson Cooper asserts that, “In a perfect world, I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business, but I do think there is value in standing up and being counted.”
It is in one line that the 45 year-old journalist has summed up why coming out still matters. The truth is, as reminded by this election year’s Republican presidential candidate and the 2010 string of LGBT youth suicides, we still live in an environment that is hostile to gay and bisexual people– with the community’s children suffering with the greatest intensity. And the entertainment industry is only further propagating such rancor. Worse still, these shut closet doors foster further self-loathing for the people within the gay community. By managers and publicists keeping their star clients closeted (and by the diffident gay stars letting them) it is communicated that, even in the 21st century, one cannot be openly gay and achieve fame, fortune, success, or their very dreams.
What it breaks down to is a need for Hollywood and the music world to open up closet doors. While the idea that we as a culture need to experience a level of greater acceptance to embrace a gay artist so that very celebrity can turn around and increase society’s love and compassion for LGBT people may seem like a catch-22, it is easily broken bearing in mind that the media has always served as a tremendous catalyst for social change.
And as always, change starts with the young people.
Artists under 25 more than any other demographic need to vow to live openly, honestly, and proudly, as Frank Ocean should be commended for. Though many (mostly middle-aged) celebrities have come out of the closet and participated in efforts like the “It Gets Better” campaign, a slew of videos made by famous faces and everyday people alike imploring LGBT kids to stay strong, it is isolating for these children to not have any immediate role models close to their peer group's age. Straight adolescents have their high school years, puppy love, sex lives, and friendships mapped out for them by 20-something “hot” celebrity couples and teen-oriented romcoms. Gay kids are not only alienated by peers (Generation Z’s empathy is still plagued by a lack of information, due in part to poor LGBT media visibility), but truly still have very little to turn to for inspiration or encouragement by ways of music, movies, television, and magazines. At this point, it would not only be revolutionary to see a young gay star navigating through life and love, it may be life saving for some confused and scared pre-teen kid who has been told this is not possible.
Larry Stylinson
1D’s Louis Tomlinson, 20, and Harry Styles, 18, affectionately dubbed “Larry Stylinson” by fans, are frequently speculated to be in a relationship with each other. The men usually laugh off the “rumors,” but have occasionally responded aggressively when asked about the nature of their “bromance.”
And as it is the very selfish desire for money that has perpetuated this "closeted public figure syndrome," coming out does come bearing additional incentives (other than feel-good heroism). History does not have the capacity to remember every cheesy (albeit catchy) summer pop hit with a “nanana” breakdown or a teenage “hottie’s” attempt to cross over into adult acting through an action blockbuster flop. It will, however, remember and mark as “icons” those who break down barriers.
Lest we forget entertainment history’s most unforgettable teen heartthrob was a fearless, boundary-breaking, and unapologetically bisexual man…James Dean.
Dean and Brando
In a display of pre-Stonewall bravery, screen legends James Dean and Marlon Brando share a kiss. Golden Age giants, especially Dean, did so much to pave the way for future stars to be “out.”
Dean’s setting the stage for future stars to come out has been imperative for LGBT pop culture, but equally important are the stars utilizing such bold efforts and continuing to pave the way– Artists like Frank Ocean, who, as of July 18, has debuted at #2 on the Billboard 200. His album, Channel Orange, is not even available on shelves until next Tuesday, but boasts nearly 131,000 in digital sales. Ocean’s success comes not off the heels of a tremendous publicity or advertising campaign, but after an endearing Tumblr tale of his first love with another man went viral. This is a tremendous victory, one that announces (especially to the stars close in age with Ocean) that the time to be courageous and honest, to be a hero, to make a difference, to matter, to be out, is right now.

Thank You, Marilyn: Celebrating Hollywood’s Goddess and My Personal Hero

(Originally published under name "Barbie Jeane" at http://www.thelastgoddess.com/wordpress/2012/08/06/thank-you-marilyn-celebrating-hollywoods-goddess-and-my-personal-hero/ )


Marilyn Face with Fur
It’s certainly not unusual for a child to find role models or heroes among Hollywood’s starlets and leading men. Celebrity embodies our culture’s idea of what it is to succeed; fame is parallel to the idea of the American Dream, one that idealizes the individual, recognition factor and financial rewards. However, for some of us, we turn to these stars not in hopes of possessing their status, but for a sense of solace, or even some sort of ethereal companionship.
I’m among the latter, finding a soul sister in Marilyn Monroe – a political pariah and voluptuous bottle blonde plagued by poor physical (and subsequent mental) health.
Growing up in Colorado Springs, I attended school with the children and grandchildren of both military legends and evangelical leaders. At every turn and corner, I disagreed with their ideologies, one of the few who did. As isolating and stifling as it felt (and it really, really did), I took considerable pride in sharing the political and often religious beliefs of the very Hollywooders my peers idolized. Even if my classmates and neighbors didn’t get my left-wing bleeding heart back then, it was "Hollywood cool" to hold those values. Marilyn Monroe, the very one that graced the graphic tee shirts of the very people who mocked me, would have agreed.
Marilyn Monroe’s greatest political affiliation may be marked as her affair with John F. Kennedy. However, the “Happy Birthday, Mr. President” crooner was a passionate and vocal advocate of justice and equality for the marginalized and disenfranchised. She became one of Hollywood’s most outspoken critics of racism and the infringement upon the rights of the poor. Monroe even gave her last interview on these topics, “What the world really needs is a real feeling of kinship. Everybody: stars, laborers, Negroes, Jews, Arabs. We are all brothers.”
In a truly touching story (and recent internet meme), Marilyn Monroe was angered that Hollywood’s Mocambo Club wouldn’t allow a jazz musician, Ella Fitzgerald, a gig on account of her race. “[Monroe] personally called the owner of the Mocambo, and told him she wanted me booked immediately,” Fitzgerald later recalled, “and if he would do it, she would take a front table every night.” The owner agreed, and Marilyn stayed true to her word- appearing every night during Fitzgerald’s run at the club. Fitzgerald stated, “I owe her [Marilyn] a big debt.”
Marilyn and Ella Fitzgerald
Not everyone was as appreciative of Monroe’s forward-thinking and sense of morality as Fitzgerald. The actress’s “passion… for the poor and the worker,” as described by the daughter of one of her psychiatrists, landed her a FBI file (a file that has mysteriously “gone missing” since her death) for ties with communists. Ironically, being deemed “very positively and concisely leftist” by the government would have been the ultimate honor to a woman who wanted so desperately to be taken seriously as a compassionate and thoughtful person, not just written off as a beauty.
Though, Monroe did boast exceptional good looks.
Measuring in at 5’5.5” with 36Ds, a 24″ waist, and 37″ hips, Monroe was celebrated for having the ultimate hourglass figure. The very same body type that tortured and tormented me as ideas of beauty have dramatically shifted. As far back as first grade, kids in my class talked about my body. I was told that I “ate too much” and “looked pregnant” all throughout elementary school, and the comments worsened as puberty struck in early junior high school. The fat remarks didn’t stop, but were packaged with highly sexualized and vulgar comments about my new large chest. I even remember being groped in the hallway by a boy who was of a clique I had confronted for calling me a “fat whore” only the week prior.
Ultimately, years of harassment left me too broken to know that all of this teasing was, frankly, absolute bullshit. At 16, I had created for myself an extreme diet plan that I felt would prove infallible. I was correct. The pounds dropped off as I ate only 500-1,000 calories every day, and worked off almost as many. And while I now had a smaller (still hourglass) frame, one that would never get me called “fat” again, I was left with an extremely unhealthy relationship with food (something I still struggle with daily). Not to mention, greatly delusional with regard to what my body actually looks like. Even with a deluge of compliments, I still saw oozing, bulging, gargantuan waves of corpulence flooding my sight every time I passed a mirror. I hated myself.
Until I re-watched Some Like It Hot one late night on Turner Classic Movies.
Since then, Some Like It Hot, has become a personal favorite of mine due to my infatuation with portrayals of gay life in early cinema. Marilyn is a sultry club singer named Sugar. Sultry being key, Sugar was the standout girl in her troupe and the object of desire for many of the men who came in contact with her. Her beauty was powerful…
And it was my own!
Marilyn Some Like it Hot
In one of the most famous scenes in cinematic history, Monroe’s character sings with her ensemble in a sheer dress that leaves absolutely nothing to the imagination. In her nakedness I saw myself – ample breasts, a disproportionate waist, hips abounding and legs not for days- but for the single best day of your life. She was beautiful. So maybe I was, too? I dashed to the computer to Google her height and measurements. I was ecstatic to compare my body up against that of someone else; I finally knew what I looked like. The body I had castigated and disdained was almost the same size as America’s most famous and revered sex symbol.
I would soon slim down to Marilyn’s exact 36D-24-37 following a year of a mysterious illness, another time I turned to the Golden Age legend to pull me out of a rut.
In memorializing the 50th anniversary of Marilyn Monroe’s passing (she died August 5th, 1962), the press will inevitably hype up her death from drug overdose and pay little mind to her reasons as they have for the past five decades. Perhaps understandably, as a star’s most tragic and premature demise only enhances her place in history as Hollywood’s enigmatic legend. 
The truth about Marilyn’s life was tragedy through and through, up until her “fitting” end with one of her biggest demons being her struggle with endometriosis.
Endometriosis is a reproductive disorder in which the cells that line the uterus grow in various other places within the body. The little-understood malady is present in approximately five million women in the United States, and can manifest by way of severe pain and several other decidedly unglamorous symptoms.
It was because of her endometriosis that Marilyn Monroe had two miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy; it’s also widely speculated that the condition fueled the actress’s “depression” (she was never formally diagnosed with any form of mental illness, but Monroe was notably sensitive) and landed her on the very drugs that would eventually be the cause of her death at the age of 36.
Monroe’s illness still comes as a surprise to many because the glamorous star never carried herself in a way that implied anything was wrong. Even while she suffered through miscarriages and prescription-warranting constant pain, Monroe maintained the very air of what it is to be a larger-than-life starlet. Her tragedy may write her off as fragile, but her composure and grace in the face of chronic illness takes a kind of strength unbeknownst to those who have not found themselves in the same place as an endometriosis-stricken Marilyn and myself, with my mysterious illness eventually diagnosed by the same name.
Marilyn Medium
On my bad days, when the world feels void of compassion (as it so frequently does this election year), or when I don’t feel very beautiful or physically well, I still look to Marilyn. Though she is the celluloid’s paramount icon, her aptitude to care and, albeit dismissed, fortitude (despite her precarious health) are inimitable. In fact, it seems such traits and their ability to inspire were the very legacy Marilyn wanted to leave behind. More than the blonde hair and airhead roles, Monroe wanted people to feel and to love.
And in her honor today, and each subsequent day thereafter, that is what I strive to do.
My sincerest gratitude goes to the screen legend who continues to inspire, to save me. I love you, Marilyn.
Marilyn Flower

Learning About Rape: The Afternoon Special Missed by the GOP

(Originally published under name "Barbie Jeane" at http://www.thelastgoddess.com/wordpress/2012/08/22/learning-about-rape-the-afternoon-special-missed-by-the-gop/ )


Hide yo wife
After claiming female victims of “legitimate rape” could not become pregnant due to the uterus’s ability to “shut that whole thing down,” Missouri congressman Todd Akin took to Mike Huckabee’s radio talk show to ‘pologize…
…for using the term “legitimate rape,” as opposed to “forcible.”
“I was talking about forcible rape, and that [‘legitimate’] was absolutely the wrong word,” Akin said, using a still-infamous rape descriptor that made waves upon its inclusion in the 2011 “No Tax Payer Funding for Abortion Act.” The bill, which both Akin and VP hopeful Paul Ryan sponsored, had originally stated that exceptions from the bill would only be made for underage victims of incest and women who conceived during “forcible rape.” The word “forcible” was dropped before the act was passed by Congress in a 251-175 vote (it was never introduced in the senate, nor would it be expected to garner the necessary votes) due to considerable outrage from rape and violence-awareness groups and the Democratic party.
Though as the term “forcible” rape did not die alongside the NTPFAA and is currently floating around public discourse, it seems an appropriate time to remind Republicans that all rape is “forcible.”
That is what rape is- forced sex.
Jenny, who was raped at gun point, was just as “forced” as Betty, who was raped after being drugged. Incidentally, Billie was just as “forced” as Betty and Jenny when her boyfriend continued to have sex with her after she told him to stop. All three girls did not want to have or consent to sex. Therefore, they were forced.
Because that is what all rape is. Forced, or “forcible.”
House Lady Parts Diagram
And, unfortunately, all of these rapes could yield a pregnancy.
Women reach their peak age of fertility in their 20s, with 22.5 being the average age of rape victims in the United States. With so many women being fertile at the time of their assault, pregnancy resulting from rape may be a real concern for many- and a frightening reality for the estimated 32,101 women who will become pregnant by their attacker each year. That is 32,101 scared women who do not need Todd Akin, Paul Ryan, or any other (usually male) Republican politician to decide whether or not their story is, essentially, frightening enough to actually be deemed “rape.”
Of course, Akin was not totally incorrect in (very inarticulately) asserting that rape does not always lead to pregnancy. This has nothing to do, however, with the female body being able to “shut the whole thing down.” Though a uterine rape sensor would have been a phenomenal evolutionary trait to have picked up, this is something the female reproductive system does not yet come equipped with. Instead, rapes do not consistently lead to pregnancy for a variety of reasons, including the victim being on birth control, infertile (perhaps due to age or health), or, of course, male. (It is curious whether the GOP recognizes male victims of rape as such, as the party has expressed no interest in penning any laws that control male bodies. Is male rape more or less “forcible” if the perpetrator was a decrepit priest, as opposed to a hulking gym bunny hopped up on steroids? Can the rape be “forcible” if carried out by a woman? Or is the rape even “legitimate,” since no real, burly, macho, “legitimate” man could ever possibly get raped?)
Rape is one of the most soul-crushing, self esteem-shattering, life-ruining, dehumanizing, and painful (both emotionally and physically) experiences a person can be subjected to. Victims of sexual assault deserve nothing less than sympathy and assistance in obtaining any and all resources necessary to regain their well-being. This includes (free) rape kits, counseling, accurate information on what they (and their body) have experienced, and sometimes abortion; it should never include politicians trying to refute and belittle the nightmare that is rape, especially in a bizarre attempt to pass legislation denying victims adequate care.
Obama on Akin

Pam Grier, Legendary Bad Girl and Sexy Avenger, Finds Power in Pragmatism

(Originally published under name "Barbie Jeane" at http://www.thelastgoddess.com/wordpress/2012/08/29/pam-grier-legendary-bad-girl-and-sexy-avenger-finds-power-in-pragmatism/ )


Pam Grier
The “exploitation film” is, at its core, about empowerment and fantasy. In particular, the exploitation films that have made Pam Grier (Coffy, Jackie Brown) a legend did so due in part to an audience of marginalized people who needed the strength cultivated by seeing the oppressor brought to their knees.
And, certainly, these films feel good during a particularly hostile election season.
“There is no humanity,” Pam Grier said of this year’s roster of GOP politicians while attending a Denver-area Gay and Lesbian Task Force benefit last Thursday.
Yet, Grier does not subscribe to any violent- or even radical- ideas as to how to tackle the despotic and invidious agenda of the right. The actress, most frequently envisioned en-afro and gun-in-hand, believes passionately in the capabilities of love, community, and pragmatism to enforce change– and Grier has an abounding history to justify her approach.
Pam Grier
“My family is from the underground railroad, [and later] we suffered through Jim Crowe,” the 63 year-old (and still stunning) Sheba, Baby star said, continuing with a story about not being allowed in “whites only” gas stations, “We silently, and with dignity, said that we would start our own market. You don’t go up to the fence with your fist, you’ll break it. Find a way around that fence!”
Unfortunately, being a black actress in the 1970s would challenge Grier with many more fences. Even as Grier was hot off the heels of Foxy Brown, many in the entertainment industry doubted her appeal. Even Gloria Steinem faced opposition to putting Grier on a 1975 cover of Ms. Magazine. Critics told Steinem, already an influential journalist and feminist activist, that a cover featuring an African-American woman simply wouldn’t sell.
“And it did!” Grier smiled.
Her smile, laughter, and warmth, even as she recounted experiences with racism and spoke of prejudice and bigotry, is integral among her tools to fight down these very injustices. Grier explains that the key to making a difference is telling your story. And the way to get your story heard is to be kindly and do it with love.
Pam Grier
“Do your thing, people gravitate to the laughing person in the room,” she said when being asked about how to face down hatred, “We have voices [to tell our stories], we can vote, we can write letters. We’re unique, and we’re not afraid.”
Grier went on the explain that this was the very reason for taking her role on The L Word.
Portraying Kate “Kit” Porter on the Showtime lesbian drama, Pam Grier played a straight woman with various romantic entanglements- one of which was with a heterosexual female impersonator. Grier took the role in hopes she would be able to bridge the gaps between gay and straight, black and white, and black and gay. “{The L Word was] a small step, so in a small way, I was working for the gay community,” she shared a during a Q&A at the NGLTF event, “I thought, ‘Maybe they’ll [those who still hold anti-LGBTQ sentiments] find a story… that resonates with them.’”
“Tell stories,” she emphasized again, “because people don’t like to be preached to.”
Stories are Pam’s weapon of choice going forward, of which she has many. A recent and poignant one being of her female neighbors in her rural Colorado community who are being bullied out of casting a vote for Barack Obama in November. Grier shared that a number of women have approached her saying their husbands are threatening them, presumably by saying they will take their mail-in ballots or block them from getting to their nearest polling place, as a means to sway their support behind Mitt Romney. It was only while telling this story did Grier’s voice hint at outrage, implying that, despite her optimism, she knows how many battles for justice and equality are still being fought.
But Pam Grier thinks we’re getting better.
“I understand exclusion and inhumanity,” she reassured, “But if you take small steps, you are still moving forward.”
Pam Grier’s memoir, Foxy: My Life in Three Acts, is available now; her new film, The Man with the Iron Fists, is slated for release in early September. Grier will also start shooting her next film, a motion picture about her life, with Universal Studios soon. “It’ll be a women’s movement,’ she said of the project.
(Portions of this report were derived from a one-on-one chat during a reception at the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s annual Denver Summerfest event. Other quotes are sourced from an interview and Q&A hosted by Eden Lane at the same event.
For more information on Eden Lane, and her interview with the incredible Ms. Grier, please visit here.)

One Direction Teases "Big Announcement"

(Originally published at http://ghurltalk.com/2012/08/23/one-direction-teases-a-big-announcement/ )


One Direction has been hosting a countdown to a “big announcement” on both their official Twitter and Facebook pages, with the surprise to be shared Thursday at 1 o’clock pm UK time.
But we’re too anxious to wait.
So, to diffuse our tensions, we took to the Google (and our own fantasies) to try to piece together any possible hints as to what this ground-breaking, earth-moving, life-changing “big announcement” could possibly be.
Here are the only droppings we could scoop up-
1. Louis has joined the cast of an upcoming UK take on The Jersey Shore.
Tomlinson stepped out of the BBC Radio 1 studios on Monday looking a little “fake ‘n’ bake.” Perhaps modeling himself after Jersey Shore party animal The Situation?!
Louis would be following in the footsteps of many other band members and “child” stars who have landed reality show gigs- including fellow boy bander Kevin Jonas. The recently wed Jonas brother premiered his new show, Married to Jonas, last Sunday.
2.) The 1D boys have been inducted into the Illuminati.
More than that tan (the end-of-summer blues send us running to the tanning beds, too, boo boo- ), wtf is up with that graphic tee?
Louis complimented his new bronzed look with a white tee shirt… Or, we imagine the shirt would have brought out his new glow orange tones if we weren’t distracted by the freaky-deaky “all-seeing eye up top a pyramid” Illuminati logo silk screened on it.
Of course, this isn’t the first time the band has incited suspicion that they may be part of the New World Order. Conspiracy theorists first raised eye brows when One Direction’s Niall Horan posted a picture of himself framing his eye with his fingers. According to Illuminati experts, this hand gesture is indicative of membership to the all-powerful group.
3.) One Direction has accepted The Wanted’s invitation to a dual.
We have yet to confirm if The Wanted and One Direction will engage in a sing and dance off or if they’ll be pitting their fans against one another a la Battle Royale (or The Hunger Games, for the kiddos). Though, it is sounding like it may just be the latter.
The Wanted
The Wanted sat down with Access Hollywood today to discuss the rivalry between the two groups and their fans.
“I wouldn’t advise One Direction fans to fight with ours because our [fans] are really tough,” The Wanted’s Max George told the popular entertainment news show, “Although, the quantity of theirs is probably a little bit larger. So, I think it’d be a good fight.”
4.) Harry, Louis, Zayn, Laim, and Niall will be posing naked for Playgirl.
… and we hear Tom Daley will strip down with ‘em!
And we’ll finally have a good picture of the six twink temptresses together!
Ok, this is the one sourced from our wild imagination, but we thought it wouldn’t hurt to put a bug in everyone’s ears!
Regardless of what the announcement turns out to be tomorrow, Zayn Malik won’t be celebrating the good news with his fans on the interwebz. The oh-so sensitive (mysterious, sexy, brooding “fellow-fatale”) 19 year-old deleted his Twitter in a huff earlier today. He told fans, “I’m sick of all the useless opinions and hate that I get daily. Good bye, Twitter.”
Our “crying shoulder” is free, sugar!
Or maybe the announcement is that Zayn will be re-joining Twitter?
How cheap would that be?!